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I used to feel like this and yes at weddings in particular.

At some point I realized that I am not the only +1 at this wedding and somehow those other +1s aren't fucked up in their head about it.

Eventually you realize your agency. Like you can for example spot the other +1 and strike up a conversation.



> Eventually you realize your agency

Oh that's not the problem at all for me. I am perfectly capable of feeling lonely right through that entire super fun engaging conversation with strangers. Because a conversation doesn't scratch that same itch. Like eating potato chips when what you really need is steak.


It's not a good metaphor because a potato chips conversation can end up a steak conversation


Sometimes yes sometimes no. Sometimes steak just isn't available, but you can have a great roast instead.




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