I fear you're interpreting what I'm saying the wrong way.
Imagine you have two children. As with any loving parent, doing what you can to support your children is paramount.
One of your children has substance abuse issues and has been struggling to keep a job and the other is running a few successful bookstores in a vacation town and recently got married.
Of course you don't have favorites. And of course you will do what you need to do to make each child successful.
But one of those children you're going to spend a lot more time thinking and worrying about than the other. But that does not mean you're not taking your job supporting either of them seriously.
I'm saying I'm getting real tired of thinking about which rehab center is best and googling the effects of barbiturates, if you know what I mean.
I fear you're interpreting what I'm saying the wrong way.
Imagine you have two children. As with any loving parent, doing what you can to support your children is paramount.
One of your children has substance abuse issues and has been struggling to keep a job and the other is running a few successful bookstores in a vacation town and recently got married.
Of course you don't have favorites. And of course you will do what you need to do to make each child successful.
But one of those children you're going to spend a lot more time thinking and worrying about than the other. But that does not mean you're not taking your job supporting either of them seriously.
I'm saying I'm getting real tired of thinking about which rehab center is best and googling the effects of barbiturates, if you know what I mean.