In my career I have basically never seen an average of 40 hours a week and I don’t know many people in my field who have.
I would say 45-50 hours is baseline and 60 hours happens once or twice a month. Occasionally, once or twice a year, I work 70-80 hours for a few weeks.
I am not proud of this. It is brutal and has taken its toll on me. I dream about retiring early, but am at least 20 years from retirement unless something magical happens.
I'm sorry to hear this. I've had the exact opposite of you - 35-40 hour weeks for 13+ years.
Yes, I've done OT, 2 AM deployments, 5 AM deployments, hours on holidays, etc etc - but I'd always take time off so I can recover, either from PTO or "free hours" approved by a good boss.
If I was even threatened with what you've been through, I'd put my two weeks in. Life is too short to work for free, on a fixed, 40-hour salary, for someone else. It's wage theft, plain and simple.
I don't know if I've ever done overtime except 2-3 specific days I remember very vividly, where we stayed a few hours longer because something was broken in prod.
If you spend those extra 20 hours a week preparing for interviews and looking for a new job your problem will be solved and you'll probably get a bump in pay too
I would say 45-50 hours is baseline and 60 hours happens once or twice a month. Occasionally, once or twice a year, I work 70-80 hours for a few weeks.
I am not proud of this. It is brutal and has taken its toll on me. I dream about retiring early, but am at least 20 years from retirement unless something magical happens.