yep, what GP called "European cultural prejudices" is just a thousand year of direct experience and knowledge that the gradient of how wild and barbaric things become grows when one moves from inside the Europe through East/South Europe toward Russia/Turkey (i need to hand it to Turkey though - "photographic evidence of enjoyment of being penetrated as proof (being exclusively the active sexual partner is not considered gay)" beats a lot of what i could say about my old country :)