Yes my mom did too. After several times she failed to deliver them to the school nurse for their daily tranquilizers, she was eventually put on administrative leave and then denied tenure. unfortunately, you cannot fight the system. The boys she had were excelling, but the schools could not stand that they were being showed up by a mother of boys with no 'formal' research experience.
That depends on if you think the equilibrium will be something like 25% of boys needing drugs to normalize them (where it is trending in ‘leading’ counties).